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Apart from the fact that Blixen lived in Denmark, do you think there is any other reason Stegner might have chosen to include her in this particular story?

Apart from the fact that Blixen lived in Denmark, do you think there is any other reason Stegner might have chosen to include her in this particular story?
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I thought it quite odd. Maybe they were friends? John Irving mentioned other authors in Last Night In Twisted River. However, that was just a mention, not an actual scene as in this book.

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I especially was 'amused' by the reference to a friend (of the narrator) off in Iraq helping the Iraqis put down the Kurds (the time of the book is 1974 I believe). Alliances sure have changed. That is a nice way to put it.

I love it that she gets him to read the journal aloud. It's really a very intimate act, and I'm not sure that many men - or women - would agree to it.

I also can relate to Joe, he is very much like my mother and something I am trying not to be : ) . I too am a bit of a grump. I love his avoidance to go see the shut-ins calling them 'dim ,enfeebled tottering dead' something I guess he does not want to see since he knows he's headed in that direction himself.

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Well, I am glad you did ask. I didn't make that connection and you helped me to understand why she might have been included in the book.


If anyone has discussion questions that they can think of and that they would like to throw out there, please do ! My copy was a library book and I've already return it, so I am not going to be much help.

Would you ever consent to reading an old journal to a spouse? I am thinking that I might not.

I liked the concept of the journal reading and having the book run on two tracks like it did. It was just that the journal story didn't click for me. I would have liked it if the journal story was connected to their son.
As to reading the journal. I don't know. I would think it would just hurt the other person if it was, as in this case, an infidelity.
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I thought the infidelity was pretty tame. A kiss? It didn't energize the story for me. It was almost on the Jimmy Carter I lusted in my heart, sort of level.
As to not seeing any change in the narrator's demeanor, I think that might also be a problem. There wasn't a big change. If the narrator doesn't really grow/change....well where is the arc in the the main character's story line? He was sort of the same, from start to finish. The wife really, too.
What did you think ?

SPOILERS !!!
In Susan Wise Bauer's book on reading she gave some questions to keep in mind while reading. Of course, not all book warrant such introspection and not all questions apply to all novels. I think SB is a literary novel that can stand such scrutiny.
Title- what does it mean?-
the main character felt he was a spectator in life. I would have titled it The Spectator. Why he added bird, I'm not so sure.
~ What title would you give the book?
I am not even sure if he was just a spectator in life. He may be depressed now, but I don't think that is the same thing. He seems to have done a lot in his life. Married, children and an interesting job.
~What does the writer want me to believe?
Again, I'm not sure. Is he saying follow your heart? If so, would he really have been happier with the other person than his wife. I didn't really see any evidence of that. Don't be an agent, be the talent? It's a nice thought, but not very practical. Not everyone can be the Talent. If it was otherwise, it wouldn't be as special as it is.
When you evaluate a novel, Bauer says to ask:
Am I persuaded? Am I transported? Do I see, feel, hear this other world? Can I sympathize with the people who live there? Do I understand their wants and desires and problems? Or am I left unmoved?
For most of these question, I would answer, no. I certainly didn't feel transported, like when you fall into a novel and forget all time and place. I was always aware I was reading. It's hard to explain that feeling. That click. When you move over to the other side. Whatever you call it, it didn't happen for me with this book.
I did sympathize a bit with the main characters unhappiness in growing old and facing his own mortality. That's not an easy or pleasant thing to do. It also no fun when you start to feel your body betray you. But did I gain any insight into this topic from reading SB. I have to say no.
The rest of the story I also didn't connect to. The whole Denmark part of the book. I didn't feel that part of the story. I guess I was a bit unmoved. Perhaps if the son's story was part of some "secret" and not the Denmark thing, I would have been into it more. I also would have liked it more if the genetic angle was played up a bit more. I've read books that told the eugenics story and I really found that quite interesting.Even the little bit that Jodi Picoult had in one of her books, I think Second Glance, is the title, moved me more. In fact, it made me want to research the whole topic on the internet. I didn't know about the whole eugenics movement in the U.S. so I also learned a lot. Which is also a big plus for me when I read a book. I like to come away with more than I started. I want to feel I've changed in some way from reading a book.
In this story, I was of course shocked by what took place, but I felt it need way more explaining.
I'll take up more questions in another post.

~What does the central character ( or characters ) want? What is standing in his or her way? And what strategy does he or she pursue in order to overcome this block?
What is the central question of the novel? I'm not sure. Is it don't be a spectator in life? Is it why the son killed himself? This isn't explored at all so that can't be it. Is it his marriage to his wife? Is it the love that got away?
~What is blocking the characters from the goal?
Family secrets. Maybe lack of communication between the married couple. They use the journal to overcome that. I guess it is successful to a degree. Though not completely as I don't see a change in either the wife or husband. Though the family Denmark secrets are out now. Though what that really accomplishes I couldn't say.
~Is the novel an accurate portrayal of life?
I would say yes. People have a hard time facing their mortality. They also have a hard time communicating. Sometimes it is hardest to communicate with those closest to you. The Denmark angle is weird, but so is life.
~Do yo sympathize with the characters?
To a limited degree. I sympathize with the getting older part. I think the adultery part was way overblown. I felt the husband had a case of not counting his blessing for having a loving wife and a good life. And perhaps thinking the grass is always greener on the other side.
~ Did the writers time affect him ?
I think so. Stegner is an older man. Maybe I can't relate so much. His morals and the world view probably are different than mine.
~ What exactly is the author trying to tell you? Do you agree with the author?
I don't really know if the author had a moral or a point to this story. If so, I didn't get the message.

I'm not sure I think the son's suicide is the biggest thing contributing to the narrator's general dissatisfaction with life. It's part of it, certainly, but I wasn't that curious to explore that part of the past.
To me the central issue is the relationship between the narrator and his wife, her essential openness and desire to communicate, and his essential tendency to keep things to himself, or to cloak everything in sarcasm. I think his uneasiness with changing culture has to do with that openness. He keeps saying that modern books are awful because they are full of sex, which may be true, but it shows his reluctance to talk about the subject. I'm going to have to go dig, but there was something at the end that suggested that the reading of the journal did bring the husband and wife closer together.

Maybe someone who is still reading it, can remind me when they get to that point.

Title- what does it mean?-
I agree with Alias, Joe felt he was a spectator in his life, just walked around looking but never really participating. Maybe bird in the title was that like a bird he fluttered from tree to tree looking from different views, hidden in the branches never really participating in anything.
What title would you give the book ?
??? Just The Spectator seems to apply.
What does the writer want me to beleive ?
To get involved in life, to do something not to wait around till you're older to regret that you did not do anything in life. Joe feels that he did not do enough for his son, maybe if her would have been a little more involved his son might have turned out different, or maybe would have changed. Joe laments on how he could br more like the Dr, have his spirit his way of looking at life.
When you evaluate a novel, Bauer says to ask:
Am I persuaded? Am I transported? Do I see, feel, hear this other world? Can I sympathize with the people who live there? Do I understand their wants and desires and problems? Or am I left unmoved?
As I mentioned earlier there I related with the main character since I see some of my mother in him. Just going around life being grumpy, lamenting what has happened but never really doing anything about it. Taking the path as if you have no control over your life (to an extent). In addition I am an only child and growing up I hung around a lot with my grandfather and his friends, so some of the characters in a way reminded me a little of my childhood. I sympathize with Joe in the sense that we are all getting older and it is sometimes frustrating as you note the physical differences from being young. I now have to take medication for blood pressure, cholesterol have some aches and pains : )
I feel Joe wants to be a bit different but either he thinks he does not know how to go about it or he feels to old to make any changes.
I felt the Joe and Ruths reaction for what happened in Denmark a little light, or maybe it was that the author did not get into it much as far as the characters of Astrid and her Eigel. Astrid seems to be the only one that was really ashamed, the others sort of looked away but never really showed any emotion to it. The son like the father felt nothing wrong with it, taking more of a scientific view tossing aside any moral issues.
What is the central question of the novel?
I also feel it was not to be a spectator, to become involved. The Dr is a great example, he has a pacemaker and hip surgery yet he still has an active life, drives around in a convertible. Yes, age will slow you down but don't let it completely stop you. There is a syaing that some people die at 30 but are not buried till 60.
What is blocking the characters from the goal?
I think they are blocking themselves, not making an effort although small to start making a change. Not letting go of the past, being able to realize that it was not their fault ( Son's death) sometimes things just happen.
~Is the novel an accurate portrayal of life?
I would say yes. People start looking back at their life when they are older. They start fearing the future or specifically where they are headed. : ) Sometimes the hardest person to communicate with is the one right next to you.
~ Did the writers time affect him ?
I beleive that maybe these were issues that either Stegner himself was going through or maybe he knew of someone a friend possibly that was going through issues at getting older.
I did think the kiss incident was a little overblown. To me it was more that Joe was getting intersted in Astrid and that with time something might have happened between them. To an extent I think he also wanted to protect Astrid, take her away from her suffering, maybe being able to make a diffeence in her life, something he feels he was not able to do with his Son. Just a thought.
Forgive me for what I feel are my somewhat limited expression in my writings. I read all your posts and somewhat feel intimidated. Have not done this in quite a while and I was rusty to being with. :D

To an extent I think he also wanted to protect
Astrid, take her away from her suffering, maybe being able to make a diffeence in her life, something he feels he was not able to do with his Son. Just a thought.
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Interesting. I didn't think of that. Though the author didn't really explore the son's suicide, so how can the reader know what happened. It didn't seem to affect the mother that way. I would think this would be a major event in their lives. To bring it up, and then not explore it further was a mistake by the author, imo.
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Forgive me for what I feel are my somewhat limited expression in my writings. I read all your posts and somewhat feel intimidated. Have not done this in quite a while and I was rusty to being with. :D
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I hope you're kidding. Your post was terrific !

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I don't. But he sure did. And the author seemed to make a big deal out of it.




I disagree with several people here who seem to think Joe wishes he'd gone for it with Astrid. I felt it was just the opposite. He was attracted, but he really is happy he stayed with Ruth. At the end he talks about comparing himself to some kind of bird, where you have a mate who cares if you get bruised, helps you find worms, etc. He values the nest he and Ruth have made with each other. He makes it clear she means more to him than the attraction Astrid held for him. He said he'd gone for years at a time without thinking of Astrid, but he couldn't have done the same about Ruth if he'd made the other choice.
I thought it was a realistic look at the basic nature of a life-long relationship. It has its irritations and it has its joys. It has a lot of predictability. Life has its temptations, but when we look back at the choices we've made, we often are glad for the ones we made to stick to the more realistic ones. Joe was glad with his choice.
Spectator, yes in a sense. But he chose not to follow the path of the current values he grumbles about. He chooses the moral path, and he is more satisfied with that.

To an extent I think he also wanted to protect
Astrid, take her away from her suffering, maybe being able to make a difference in her life, something he feels he was not able to do with his ..."
Thanks!! I guess everyone has their insecurities. : D

It is good for me to get out of the narrator's 'claustrophobic' dreary world. I think that the upbeat turn at the ending was 'unearned'. After all the gloom and doom, it seemed like the author felt like he needed to suddenly 'turn it up' a bit (to end the book). But the narrator's final upbeat analogy (about marriage) about the bird and the nest totally escapes me - this analogy does not strike me as profound or 'earned'. And the narrator displayed no PERSONAL affection or love for his wife. He summarized her as a good and practical 'nest mate'. Pity the wife/spouse that gets summarized like that.


I disagree with several people here who seem to think Joe wishes he'd gone for it with Astrid.
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I don't know what I think Joe wished. For the whole book he seemed to wish he'd taken that other fork in the road. Then at the end he seemed "content" with his choice.
I guess to a degree reading the journal helped him make peace with that. Though he had no such insights while writing the journal.
What did you make of the whole Denmark/genetics part of the book, Sharon /Libyrinths? Did you think the author should have run with the son part of the story or were you happy with the searching for his mom's story in Denmark angle?

Alias says: I don't know what I think Joe wished. For the whole book he seemed to wish he'd taken that other fork in the road. Then at the end he seemed "content" with his choice.
I think part of him wished he'd been a bit more than a spectator, but when he compared that to what not being a spectator meant, he was happy with his choice. He seemed to wish he'd written a novel rather than being just an agent, but then notes that what sells is stuff he doesn't want to read much less be the author of. And we've talked about the choice in Denmark. So, I think you're right that part of him wished not to feel so much a spectator, but he wasn't willing to make the choices he saw in order to do so.
Alias says: What did you make of the whole Denmark/genetics part of the book, Sharon /Libyrinths? Did you think the author should have run with the son part of the story or were you happy with the searching for his mom's story in Denmark angle?
I had the feeling he was trying to do a "gothic" tale there a la some of Blixen's stories, and thus why Blixen as a character. I felt the son's story was in the past, and I wasn't looking for anything about him. What was in the present was the ongoing guilt and questioning and grief over the son's death. I felt he did as much with the son's story as was possible.
I did feel the search for his mother's story was connected to all that. Several times early on, he talked about people looking to the past for a place of safety. I felt he wanted some kind of comfort for his grief and guilt. This was, of course, psychological safety he was seeking. Some idyllic notion of the "old country" and the past, and times when things were less complex or demanding, when life was simpler, more understandable, more clear morally. Of course, that only exists in our imaginations, not in reality. The past he searched for turned out to be anything but safe and simple and moral. I objected to the specific turn it took with all the genetics stuff. I didn't really want to read all that bizarre stuff, frankly. But it was certainly "gothic", LOL!
Sharon

I thought his caring for her was subtly presented. Even at 70 I might want more, but I also think that a lot of what we might expect at 30 or 40 is simply quietly understood by the other at 70 and doesn't need large demonstrations and professions. I thought it was a reasonably realistic way of looking at a relationship of that duration.

I know that this 'safety vs. possibility' theme played into the son's death, as Joe felt like the son did not know what to do with his 'possibility'. Maybe Joe made some peace with his son's death because Joe know realized (after reading his journals) that there is no 'safety'. It seems like a simplistic 'theory' and I am not even sure I agree with myself, but perhaps Joe did make peace with his son's death in that way.


I 100% agree with your statement (in message 30):
I don't know what I think Joe wished. For the whole book he seemed to wish he'd taken that other fork in the road. Then at the end he seemed "content" with his choice.
Playing 'devil's advocate' here, perhaps Joe's 'contented ending' legitimately happened because of the cathartic effects of reading the journal with his wife. Although it did appear that the final journal entry of Joe's 'affair of the heart' was not read to Ruth by Joe. Catharsis can have a pretty dramtic effect on our outlook, and I guess that is what happened to Joe. He felt like he was suddenly unburdened by a great burden.
Going further, I don't think Joe was honest (with himself) that the son's death was the biggest reason for his 'gloom & doom'. I think that his 'affair of the heart' (and especially the subsequent lack of communication with Ruth about the 'affair') was the biggest pall over his life. That is one reason why much of this book centered on the trip to Denmark as opposed to Joe's relationship with his son.


I guess I just wasn't in the right mood or place in my life to appreciate Spectator Bird. I'm glad that some of you ( Sherry & Sharon ) did enjoy it. I'm looking forward to see what the others in the group think of it. It's a fairly quick read.

Thanks for the article link. I enjoyed the article, but will (in a year's time) probably forget everything in the article. I agree with Professor Wolf (in the article) that the books can 'shape us' even if we don't later recall much about them. Likewise, I am sure that we have forgotten many 'developmentally meaningful' events that happened to us in childhood.

I also like what you said about possibilities. I hadn't thought of that in terms of the son, but you're right on with that. There were possibilities on two sides. On Joe's side, he could have been more directive as a father, but chose not to. He could have been more clarifying about what to do with some of the values he conveyed. On the son's side, he could have made other choices which wouldn't have put him in the place where the accident happened. He coulda been sumboddy. He coulda been a contendah. ;-0
Alias, like you, I also enjoyed Angle of Repose a lot. This is a very different book. I liked this as well, except for that one aspect I mentioned. I've been wanting to read Crossing to Safety, but haven't gotten around to it yet.



I always nominate books I haven't read. So I never know if it will be a terrific read or not.
And some books which I wouldn't call great, have given us some very good discussions. You never can tell.


The old political references make it kind of dated but there are just as many literary references which I dearly love. However, I think that if you don't have a wide background in literature a lot would go past.
I will definitely hold onto "I cope, therefore I am."


Unfortunately, there are no official questions for this book, so I had to use ones from Bauer's book on reading. Since Stegner is considered one of our top literary novelists, perhaps it would interesting to maybe discuss his writing and how effective you feel it is. Bauer's questions may help guide.
I think one may enjoy a book, but that always doesn't make it a great discussion book. Maybe SB is that type of book.

I don't think it is necessary for one to "like" a book, the characters or even the writing to make it a great discussion book. The book on Alaska (sorry the title escapes me) that we read here was a non fiction book where we didn't like the main characters and felt the writing was just OK. But the characters and their actions provoke strong feeling in us. And we were able to debate their actions. The result was a good discussion. For me, that's what makes a good discussion book. One that provokes strong reactions in the reader.
For one of my F2F book groups we are going to read
Unchosen: The Hidden Lives of Hasidic Rebels. It is not very well written. I think it was the author's dissertation. But the topic I think will give my f2f group a lot to think about and to discuss. I hope so ! I didn't actually recommend the book, but I had mentioned it during a discussion of another book, and everyone said it sounded so interesting they wanted us to read it as a group.
I've also recommended to this same f2F group, The Tortilla Curtain. It isn't the greatest book I've ever read, but the online discussion that it invoked with an online group was one of the best ever. I think the topic of illegal immigration is one people have strong opinions on and it's relevant to peoples lives today. I think the actions of the characters in the novel could be debated. So that added to the discussion, too.
Sometimes a book that presents the reader with interesting an new information makes a good group read. The Kite Runner when my f2f group read it exposed us to a lot of new information about a country we knew little about I think that helped make it a good group read.
I am hoping Unchosen will be one such book. I'm not comparing it at all to The Kite Runner, except that it is about a group of people that most know very little about. I think they will find it fascinating.
I'll let you know how the discussion goes when these two books come up in the rotation for the F2F group.
I would add I usually don't recommend books I've already read, because I don't like to re-read. So it's always uncertain if the books I recommend here will be a winner as I never know if the book will fit the above criteria that I think makes a book a good group read. The best we can do is give it a good try.
Anyway, what do you think makes a book a good discussion book?

It's the birthday of novelist Wallace Stegner, born in Lake Mills, Iowa (1937). Although he's most often associated with the West, he himself has lived many places and written about all of them. His father moved the family around in search of the newest thing — they lived in North Dakota, then Washington, and from there his father's goal was Alaska, where he hoped he could find gold. But young Wallace got sick and his father decided he had missed his chance on Alaska, so he went to Saskatchewan. The rest of his family joined him there eventually.
In Saskatchewan, Wallace went to school for the first time — first the school was a room above the pool hall, then a makeshift building downtown, and finally a real schoolhouse. They had a house in town, and a homestead, where Stegner and his brother helped their father farm in the summers. Their homestead was a big, featureless expanse of land. He said later that he and his brother "read everything in the shack 10 times, had studied the Sears Roebuck catalog into shreds, had trapped gophers in increasing circles out from the house until the gopher population was down to bare survivors, had stoned to death the one badger they caught in a gopher trap, had lost in a big night windstorm their three captive weasels and two burrowing owls, and had played to boredom every two-man game they knew." After six years in Saskatchewan, and a failed attempt at farming wheat, the family moved to Great Falls, Montana. He said, "I left Saskatchewan mourning what I had left behind and scared of what we were going toward, and one look at my mother told me she was feeling the same way. My father and brother were leaning out of the car, exhilarated by how the fenceposts flew by on the smooth dirt road along the South Bench. They leaned and watched the roadside as if they were afraid Great Falls might flash by at any second, and they might miss it. But I was at heart a nester, like my mother. I loved the place I was losing, the place that years of our lives had worn smooth."
But Great Falls wasn't all bad; for the first time, Stegner lived near a public library. He started to read, but, he said, "It wasn't until Salt Lake City" — where the family moved a few years later — "that I began to be a real addict. I would go down to the library two or three times a week to bring away three or four books each time, without any direction."
Stegner wrote many novels, including All The Little Live Things (1967), Angle of Repose (1971), The Spectator Bird (1976), and Crossing to Safety (1987). He won a National Book Award and a Pulitzer Prize. And he started the creative writing program at Stanford and was a beloved professor — his students included Edward Abbey, Ken Kesey, Larry McMurtry, and Wendell Berry.
In his semi-autobiographical novel The Big Rock Candy Mountain (1943), he wrote: "He was a strange child. Now he clung to her skirts so closely that he hampered her walking, and she laid her hand on his head and kept it there because she knew that somewhere deep down in his prematurely old mind he lived with fear."
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Author: Wallace Stegner
Wallace Stegner (1909-1993) published more than two dozen works throughout his life, including Angle of Repose, which was awarded the Pulitzer Prize. An early environmentalist, Stegner was instrumental-with his now famous "Wilderness Letter"-in the passage of the 1964 Wilderness Act.
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Joe Allston is a retired literary agent who is, in his own words, "just killing time until time gets around to killing me." His parents and his only son are long dead, leaving him with neither ancestors nor descendants, tradition nor ties. His job, trafficking the talent of others, had not been his choice. He passes through life as a spectator.
A postcard from a friend causes Allston to return to the journals of a trip he had taken years before, a journey to his mother's birthplace where he'd sought a link with the past. The memories of that trip, both grotesque and poignant, move through layers of time and meaning, and reveal that Joe Allston isn't quite spectator enough
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